However, the real reason I am afraid to try NFP (and I’m only saying this because my side of the fence seems unrepresented here) is because of the religious overtones present in conversations about it, and I would imagine in support groups for women practicing it. It is known as FAM (Fertility Awareness Method) outside of religious circles to try and limit the religious affiliation. As someone who isn’t religious, my main concern is preventing pregnancy – period.

It comes off as condescending when women talk like preventing pregnancy through any of the modern methods available (hormonal contraception, spermicide, etc.) is immoral and undesirable. Reading these comments one would think that the only respectable way to prevent pregnancy is to practice NFP. It’s also off-putting when you talk about unplanned pregnancies like it’s no big deal: it is a very big deal when you don’t want kids ever.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that while there are misconceptions about the method itself, it is a viable method for those that trust their body and are able to maintain due diligence. However, the culture that surrounds NFP is often very demeaning to women outside of Christianity. I would feel judged for my atheism every time I talked to a practitioner or support group, more than I already do for not wanting children.

Just my two cents.

May your discernment and prayer be fruitful and wise…

Thanks for the perspective!
Katie
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